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"Schyler brought us a much needed sense of calm and ensured
we had the tools to maintain it on our own. Her loving
support and caring nature created balance within our chaotic
home. She also spent some much needed time with our
older daughter, Kaitlin, ensuring she didn't get lost in the
new baby shuffle"
-Joell
and Rick Teal, Parents of Kaitlin and baby Isabelle,
Bellevue, WA
"We
needed a Postpartum Doula when we brought the twins home
from the hospital, and Schyler was absolutely wonderful!
Her gentle nurturing balanced with her strong knowledge
base, was the perfect match for our new family. We
couldn't have made it through those first weeks without her
loving guidance. We'd highly recommend Schyler!
-A &
W, Parents of A & W, Seattle, WA
"Schyler is fabulous! She
is informative, resourceful and very present...
and great with our son."
-Lisa and Dan Pasco, parents of Isaac, Seattle, WA
"Schyler's care, attention,
experience, knowledge and compassion have been invaluable to
us. We love how reliable she is, she always does what she
says she will and arrives on time! Having a postpartum
doula is a great way to nurture a new family and
Schyler is wonderful at what she does."
-Nikki and Ken Wohlf, parents of Annika, Seattle, WA
"After
working with Schyler you'll feel more confident and at ease
with your new infant.
Her supportive and professional style makes it easy to
learn the practical
tools that every parent needs".
-Joan Casey, MSW Parenting Educator, Psychotherapist,
Seattle, WA
"I
found Schyler's advice and support in parenting my 2 year
old to be sensitive and in-tuned with my own style of
parenting. I would highly recommend Schyler
postpartum, and post-infancy!"
A.S.,
Mom of E, Seattle, WA
"Schyler goes further
than mother/infant support and extends her knowledge
to include the whole family. Schyler will provide guidance
and compassion as well
as dealing with the necessary duties that are part of family
life with a newborn.
I recommend her services as an integral part of quality
care for moms, dads and babies."
-Kate R. Casey, LHMC, Bellevue, WA
And, A letter from a very
smitten mother to Doulas of North America,
in reference of
my services.
Thank you Dawn!
"I believe that the
profession of Doula represents an essential calling for our
culture and our children. I believe this calling has the potential to impact families
in a profound way. Schyler Mason meets and
exceeds the inevitably high standards of this demanding job
and does it while breathing calm and grace
in to the home. I really can’t say enough about the
positive impact she has had on our family.
I had used 2
different Doulas before I found Schyler. Both were very
competent and helpful - but I
knew I needed something more. I did not feel comfortable
leaving the house and I knew I needed someone who would
really connect with and love my little girl so I could get
more of the daily chores/errands done. We found that with Schyler the first time she arrived to do our in-home
visit.
Sarah, our 4 Week
premature baby girl, was having a hard time. Not sleeping
well, and fussy with
what we thought may be colic. My husband and I were pretty
stressed and tired as well, as I had been on bed rest for 3 months, prior to being hospitalized for the last 3 weeks of
pregnancy. We were amazed by the fact that within 15 seconds of Schyler talking directly to Sarah, we
watched our little one begin to relax.
It just floored me! Schyler then asked her permission (then
ours!) to hold her.
We watched in amazement as Schyler moved her to many positions and immediately got a belch (to
which she replied, “I bet you feel better now!”) At this
point tears were streaming down my face at her level of
total respect, calm and caring.
It was delicious to witness and to know there was a way to
be with our precious little one that could help her find
calm! She asked Sarah to take a big breath with her and did
so twice. I watched our baby imitate her
and realized how many body signals of stress both my husband
and I were sending to her!
Schyler did all this
without telling us we were wrong or giving us advice – she
modeled the behavior,
gave us empathy and compassion for how difficult it was on
all of us that she was early, and really boosted our
confidence to be the best parents to Sarah. She also gave
me some tips, with Sarah right there, on breastfeeding;
somehow without making it sound like that was the “best” way
to feed Sarah. All this was free to us on our consultation! Needless to say, we hired her that night
to work with our family and I
just can’t imagine what our lives would have been like
without her. Take the number of examples, advice and encouragement and simply multiply that by the times she has entered
our home. She has saved us countless hours of struggle,
grief and chaos.
As if the skills I
have mentioned aren’t already rare and invaluable – another
of Schyler’s gifts is her ability to help children find and develop their sense of humor. I’ll
never forget the first time I heard Sarah giggle. Schyler
was playing one of her many games with Sarah and it was the
most beautiful sound I’d
ever heard! Within just months Sarah was laughing at
anticipated actions, and we try to make sure we hear that laugh at least once a day!
Also, Sarah had sleep
issues and with Schyler’s help she began sleeping through
the night at 4 months.She is still an incredibly good sleeper due to Schyler’s
coaching and proven techniques. Her coaching for
us as parents to be consistent, united, boundaried (having
healthy boundaries) and loving has been invaluable. We
watch many of our friends with children struggle with these
issues and have been so grateful for Schyler’s expertise and support.
Did I mention she
does that in such a way that you feel no obligation to do
what she suggests and often
times she manages to make you feel like you came up with the
discovered effective strategies. She walked
me through so many stages of grief that I know would have
interfered with my ability to stay present to
my little girl. She has cooked fabulous meals, organized
chaos, helped me let go of clothes and baby
items that were just taking up space and was always on time
(what a gift alone that is!) I know I must
sound like a paid advertisement for Schyler but I am just an
incredibly smitten mother who is soooo very grateful that
she answered her calling and became a Doula!
At this writing Sarah
just celebrated her one year anniversary and we continue to
have Schyler come
over to help us love and nurture our little girl (we have
jokingly told her that we will want her every Wednesday
until Sarah graduates from high school.)"
Dawn Matisse, Mother
of Sarah Rose, Seattle, WA
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